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Facilitated IEP Meeting Prep

A facilitated IEP meeting brings in a neutral state-trained facilitator when parent and school can't reach agreement. These sample prep sheets help you bring the right data, follow the structured agenda, and protect your ability to escalate if facilitation doesn't resolve the dispute.

Facilitated IEP meeting

When to use: Use when you are walking into a facilitated IEP meeting with a neutral state-trained facilitator because parent and school have not reached agreement and want a structured approach before escalating.

Sample Facilitated IEP meeting — facilitated iep IEP meeting prep sheet by Spectrum Unlocked
YOUR IEP MEETING GAME PLAN
Prepared for: [Your child's name] | Facilitated IEP Meeting | [Meeting date]
Parent: [Your name] | School: [Your child's school]

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AGENDA ITEMS TO RAISE
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[ ] Review of ground rules with the facilitator: who speaks first, time limits, breaks, how concerns get documented.
[ ] Each party's specific position on the disputed IEP issues, in writing where possible.
[ ] The data each side is relying on for its position.
[ ] Areas of agreement first, before working into the areas of disagreement.
[ ] Concrete options for each disputed item that the team can evaluate against the data.
[ ] An action list documenting any agreements reached, with who is responsible and by when.

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QUESTIONS TO ASK
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[ ] What is the agenda for today's meeting? Has the facilitator confirmed it with both parties in advance?
[ ] What documents has each side brought, and have they been shared?
[ ] On [specific disputed item]: what is the school's evidence? What is mine?
[ ] If we agree on partial changes today, can we document those and continue facilitation on the remaining items?
[ ] If facilitation does not resolve the disagreement, what are my next dispute-resolution options under IDEA?
[ ] How will any agreements reached be documented and incorporated into the IEP?

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TALKING POINTS
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[ ] "I'm here in good faith to work toward agreement, but I won't compromise on the substance of FAPE for [Your child's name]."
[ ] "On [specific issue], my position is [position] because [data / reasoning]. What is the school's position and reasoning?"
[ ] "If we reach partial agreement today, I want it documented in writing before we leave the meeting."
[ ] "If facilitation does not resolve [specific issue], I'm preserving the right to file for mediation under 34 CFR 300.506, a state complaint under 34 CFR 300.151, or due process under 34 CFR 300.507."

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YOUR RIGHTS IN THIS MEETING
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[ ] Facilitation is voluntary under most state programs. Either party can end facilitation at any time without giving up other rights.
[ ] Facilitated IEP is NOT the same as mediation under 34 CFR 300.506. Mediation is a separate IDEA dispute-resolution process. I can request mediation in addition to or instead of facilitation.
[ ] Any agreement reached in facilitation that changes the IEP must be documented in the IEP itself and supported by Prior Written Notice under 34 CFR 300.503.
[ ] All IDEA rights survive facilitation: state complaint under 34 CFR 300.151, due process under 34 CFR 300.507, IEE under 34 CFR 300.502.
[ ] Under 34 CFR 300.321(a)(6), I can bring an advocate or other person with knowledge of my child to the facilitated meeting.

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THINGS TO BRING
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[ ] The current IEP with the disputed sections highlighted.
[ ] All progress data, evaluations, and provider letters supporting your position on each disputed item.
[ ] A written summary of your position, the data, and the specific outcomes you are seeking.
[ ] A written list of acceptable alternatives, ranked.
[ ] An advocate or trusted second person to take notes (highly recommended for facilitated meetings).
[ ] This printed prep sheet.

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Frequently asked questions

What is a facilitated IEP?
A facilitated IEP (sometimes 'FIEP') is an IEP team meeting led by a neutral, state-trained facilitator. It is offered by many states when parent and district disagree and want a structured approach before escalating to mediation, complaint, or due process.
Is a facilitated IEP the same as mediation?
No. Mediation under 34 CFR 300.506 is a separate dispute-resolution process led by a state-appointed mediator. A facilitated IEP is still an IEP team meeting; the facilitator helps the team reach consensus on IEP content. Mediation can address any disagreement, including IEP content.
How do I request a facilitated IEP?
Contact your state DOE special education office. Most states with a facilitated IEP program have a request form. Facilitation is generally voluntary; both parent and district must agree to participate.
What if facilitation doesn't resolve the disagreement?
You retain all dispute-resolution options under IDEA: mediation under 34 CFR 300.506, state complaint under 34 CFR 300.151, or due process under 34 CFR 300.507. Facilitation does not waive any rights.
Is a facilitated IEP free?
In most states, yes. The state pays the facilitator. Check with your state DOE for specifics.